Jay was reading a book called Do What You Are: Discover the Perfect Career for You Through the Secrets of Personality Type and we ended up both figuring out what our Myers Briggs personality types are. We are, of course, almost exact opposites. I am an Extraverted Intuitive Feeling Judger and he is an Introverted Sensing Thinking Judger/Perceiver. It's been making me think a lot about how I think and decide things in my life, and how I deal with people. ENFJ's (The N is for "Intuitive") are "people people". I always thought that I was an introvert because I recharge alone.